If you are an expert in the art of self-pity, this one’s for you. Drag yourself from the drab and be awesome instead of being a miserable cow at all times. Can’t come to terms with taking this life-changing decision? Well, we bring to you the things that could happen if you choose to move away from the self-deprecating world.
1. You’d Be Happier
First things first, the moment you go from self-pitying to self-appreciation, your life will take a drastic turn, the one you haven’t been prepared for at all – you’d be happier. How tough it is to appreciate small things in life, after all, right?
2. You’d Go From Flop To Fab For Everyone
People in your life, constantly tease for being a flop show, don’t they? Well, honestly they aren’t to be blamed. If you don’t appreciate your own badass self, then why would someone else? Once you are confident enough to be fab and fantastic, ain’t nobody gonna put you down.
3. You’ll Know Yourself Better
When you let go of your insecurities, you discover your new self. Now, as cliched as it sounds, it’s true. There’s a whole lotta space in your otherwise occupied brain now and you can, finally, FINALLY, think about how to be better in life.
4. Life Would Be Less Stressful
Often, you tend to take stress when it is non-existent, and so, when you are in an actual stressful situation, you panic. If you avoid the non-existent stress part, you’d be able to deal with tough situations in your life better, in turn making life less stressful for you.
5. You’d Be More Thankful
Once you become awesome, you tend to appreciate things more in life and hence, be grateful. Being thankful to someone who helped you or even made you smile will make you happy and you’d notice you thank people much more than you used to do before.
6. You’d Be A People’s Person
Of course, you don’t ‘have to’ be a people’s person, but once you start loving life the way it is and make others a part of that, you will automatically be loved by the people in your life. Just like you appreciate them, thank them, they will, more often than not, reciprocate by doing the same for you.
7. Validation Won’t Matter Anymore
When we indulge in self-pity, we are unintentionally asking for validation from people all around us but once you start validating your own self, without letting anyone else harming your aura, you won’t seek for anybody else’s approval.
8. You’d Be Able To Feel Pain & Pleasure
When you stop being a miserable cow, you snap out of your insecure world that, till now, was stopping you to experience emotions in life. You will be able to feel excited, sad, angry and happy, all over again.
9. You’d Commit To Yourself
When you start loving yourself, you make a commitment to taking care of yourself, no matter what. When you control your actions and feelings in a way that it doesn’t adversely affect your life, that is exactly what committing to your own self feels like.
10. You Won’t Hate Everyone
Often when people who are busy self-pitying themselves, blame their being on others who have a better life than them. They eventually start hating everyone and that’s one of the good things that stops when you become awesome instead of being a miserable cow.
11. You See Things As They Are
You know when you are stuck in your self-deprecating world, you don’t see things as they are, rather those things, whether material or emotional, appear to be superficial to you; something that you can’t reach, ever. Once you get out of your zone, you see things as they are.
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